>> From there, it became very obvious to me that there were people in fandoms that thoroughly despised any talk of "dark" or "problematic" fictional content. As I was an avid Axel/Roxas fan, this made me feel guilty and disgusted whenever I so much as thought of them.<<
If we can't even talk about in fiction, then where can we talk about it? Nowhere. And problems that can't be talked about usually can't be solved. Storytelling is one of the greatest tools for exploring difficult situations at a safe remove.
>> I was not okay surrounding myself with people who encourage their friends to indulge in this kind of behavior over something ultimately so trivial. <<
Exactly. So much of fandom is just vicious and judgmental now. Those are not people I want to be around.
>> I fear that it's difficult to find other people who don't care that much anymore. <<
What other people like or dislike is their business, as long as they don't come into my space and try to start a fight over it. We're not into that nonsense.
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Date: 2025-01-06 07:40 am (UTC)If we can't even talk about in fiction, then where can we talk about it? Nowhere. And problems that can't be talked about usually can't be solved. Storytelling is one of the greatest tools for exploring difficult situations at a safe remove.
>> I was not okay surrounding myself with people who encourage their friends to indulge in this kind of behavior over something ultimately so trivial. <<
Exactly. So much of fandom is just vicious and judgmental now. Those are not people I want to be around.
>> I fear that it's difficult to find other people who don't care that much anymore. <<
What other people like or dislike is their business, as long as they don't come into my space and try to start a fight over it. We're not into that nonsense.