Reading about your experience with fandom relationships reminded me I found the woman that showed me I'm multisexual because I began using Twitter cause of a fandom. I'm sure I'd have had the epiphany sooner or later, but it's funny to recall it happened the way it did... because of fandom. I got on Twitter to find fans of a dead fandom, and ended up finding out I'm gay?!

Well, anyway. I'm glad you found many comrades through the fansphere! <3